I know it is late but I just wanted to share a thought and a prayer I been praying. I am still dreaming the dream, God knows what it is! (will share more later) I have prayed and asked Him to stir my heart and awaken my soul. To show me the next step in my walk with Him. This season of my life has not been full of turmoil and stress as the past has been but it has been one of restlessness. I believe God is wanting to make changes within me, to clean out the cobwebs of the past to make room for a new story in my future.
These past few years have been about transition. The transition from a single mother to a married woman, to a married ‘couple’ again. I had not really thought much about what that was going to look like when I embarked on remarrying my 1st husband. I was very caught up in the story God had presented in the form of restoration and healing within our family. So now I have had time to settle in, reflect and catch my breath.
The restlessness that has slipped into my heart and mind have left me at a loss of identity. My husband travels sometimes for his job. In being separated from him I find I am at a loss for direction and focus. In discussing this with a close friend who has also remarried after having been a single mother for many years, we both have determined that in the two years we have been remarried our husbands have managed to untangle us from the independent, self-sufficient, organized women-on-a-mission selves that we used to be.
How is that even possible? Make no mistake I am not complaining, it is a good thing. A good thing to be a help-mate, one with another soul and a partner in all sorts of fun adventures. God has given me the gift of loving another person completely and having that given back to me in return. He has allowed me the privilege of watching my husband grow in the Lord. Most importantly allowed me another chance of showing the love of Christ, through my marriage, to my children. Even though three of the four are grown and living their adult lives, it is NEVER too late!!!
So imagine my concern when I can not seem to focus or find the direction I need to be going in with my Lord. I know it is as simple as trusting in Him. Seeking Him in prayer and waiting on Him. And I am doing that albeit the restlessness. So far I believe He wants me to make some changes starting in the month of November.
1) Finding balance in my thought life – Romans 12:1-2 has always been one of my favorite verses and it often comes to my mind when I struggle with my thought life. But balance? What does that actually mean? I believe it means that we can often place too much value or emphasis on what we are thinking. For instance, there was a time when I first became a Christian that I was learning about the enemy and demonic activity. I was learning many scriptures and listening to many preachers who ‘specialized’ in the subject. I found over time that I was beginning to see demons behind every rock, every conversation and every action of others. I myself was becoming fearful and legalistic in my prayers and words. God had shown me at the time that while it is important to understand the enemy and how he works we are not focus on him. We are to focus on Christ and be aware of our enemy. We are to trust Christ and stand in faith and take Christ at His word. People can believe in God but not believe Him. Believing in God is just the first step to liberty. True liberty is when we believe what God says is absolutely true and then walk in that truth. When I realized my thought life was skewed I began seeking the truth in God’s word and godly counsel. In a short time I was back in balance. By bringing my focus back to Christ I, again was walking in peace and liberty with my Lord.
2) Seek God’s direction in the dream I am dreaming – Proverbs 16:9 says, “In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.” another verse that I have practically ate and slept with many times is Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” I have always loved the fact that God put an ‘s’ on the word path, meaning He is multi-tasking on our behalf. So yes, I am dreaming a dream. One I have had for many years but now is becoming more vivid. I know it is in front of me but I also know that God has not given permission to move forward, so I wait on Him. It is a matter of His time!
3) Surrender my body and will to God – wow, this is a big one. You may think you know what this means by reading it but believe me it entails quite a bit of hard work. Weight loss and health. I know what I need to do but my legs and mind are not cooperating. God convicts me and shows me where I must make the change. I have made attempts but I have to admit they are half-hearted. God will not stand for this long, I am sure. He loves me too much to let me just ignore this.
So this is where I am. Standing here with eyes looking up. “God you know I love you, I believe you and I really want your power on my life.” All the while I am thinking, I know what this is gonna mean. More surrender, more trust and more lessons. Those of you who have followed my journey on here know I have come a long way and have seen God do some great things. I can not even begin to tell you how overwhelming it is to know the God of the universe has already given me soooo much! This blog is where the dream started and as usual, I can not imagine what He has in store. I can imagine it won’t be anything I am able to do without Him. So here goes nothing….
“God, I am ready.”
grace to you,